1. Constant lying
When you did something that you know your partner wouldn't approve of, it can be tempting to lie about it. While it can be easy to lie, your lies will haunt you down the road. If you really love each other, you should never be afraid to tell the truth, no matter how hard it can be. A strong relationship is never based on lies. Remember it.
2. Desire to cheat on your partner
One of the worst temptations that ruin your relationships is the desire to cheat on your partner. If you are in a long lasting relationship and you meet another man/woman, everything can become so complicated. The only way to maintain your relationship strong is to refuse to give into that dangerous temptation, if you really love your partner.
3. Stealing your partner’s things
When you are in a long term-relationship and you are living together, it can be tempting to steal your partner’s clothes or cash without asking him. While many couples are okay with it, others are not comfortable. Your partner has the right to know what you take or how much money you take. Don’t take anything without permission and you will avoid lots of fights.
4. Spending more time with friends
When you are in a very long-term relationship, you might get jealous of all of the parties and free time your friends (especially single ones) have. But, don’t allow the temptation of alone time to ruin your relationship. Don’t forget that you can spend time with your friends; you just need to discuss it with your partner and rearrange your schedule.
5. Putting no effort into your relationship
Once you have been together for a long time, you may feel so comfortable that you may stop putting effort into your relationship. While comfort is a great thing, it can be dangerous as well. No matter how long you have been together, you still have to put effort into your relationship to make it last.
6. Constant fights
When you are in a bad mood, it’s so easy to scream at your partner to let out your emotions, however, he/she could get hurt and it can lead to numerous fights. Don’t risk upsetting your partner, scream into a pillow if you are tempted to vent. It may sound funny, but it actually work. Never blame your sweetheart for problems that he/she didn't cause. It’s one of the best ways to keep your relationship strong.
7. Taking your partner’s efforts for granted
Just because you can walk all over your partner, doesn't mean you should do it. If he/she washes your clothes for you and makes you breakfast every single morning, let him/her know that his/her hard work is highly appreciated. Treat your partner with respect and don’t take such efforts for granted.
It can be hard to keep the relationship strong, especially if one of the partners put no effort into it. If you want your relationship to stay strong, make sure you don’t act on the aforementioned dangerous desires. There’s nothing wrong with you, if you have these desires, but just don’t act on them and ensure your partner doesn’t act on them as well. Which one of these desires is the most difficult for you to avoid succumbing to? Do you know any other temptations that can ruin a strong relationship?
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